When You Need Examples to Learn From

“These things happened to them as examples and were written down as warnings for us, on whom the culmination of the ages has come.” (1 Cor. 10:11 NIV)

Edmund Burke (1729-1797) wrote:

“Those who don't know history are destined to repeat it.” We can, and should, learn from others rather than, out of ignorance, repeat the same mistakes as they did.

The old saying, “Experience is the best teacher,” is only partly true

While we often learn from our own mistakes, it is much wiser to learn from the successes and failures of others. That is one reason God gave us the Bible. It is filled with real people facing real challenges, making real choices, and experiencing real consequences.

The Bible is loaded with examples, both positive and negative, to instruct us

Scripture contains examples to imitate and warnings to heed. We can learn perseverance from Joseph, courage from David, faith from Abraham, and obedience from Jesus. We can also learn from the failures of Saul, Samson, Judas, and others who ignored God’s instructions. The Bible records these accounts not merely as history lessons but as practical guidance for our lives today.

Wise people pay attention to examples

They observe what honors God and what leads people away from Him. Rather than repeating the mistakes of previous generations, they learn from them and choose a better path. Every day we have opportunities to follow godly examples and become examples for others.

Ultimately, our greatest example is Jesus Christ

His life shows us how to love, serve, forgive, obey, and trust the Father. The more closely we follow Him, the less likely we are to wander into the same pitfalls that trapped so many others.

Imitate godly examples — Philippians 3:17 ESV
• Be a model of good works — Titus 2:7 ESV
• Let your light shine before others — Matthew 5:16 ESV
• Learn from those who lived before us — Romans 15:4 ESV
• Follow the example of Christ — 1 Peter 2:21 ESV
• Remember and imitate faithful leaders — Hebrews 13:7 ESV

Avoid the ungodly attitudes and behaviors of the last days — 2 Timothy 3:1-5 CEB
• Turn away from those who cause division and oppose sound teaching — Romans 16:17 ESV
• Learn from Israel’s failures in the wilderness — 1 Corinthians 10:6-10 ESV

Therefore

•These things were written for our instruction and warning — 1 Corinthians 10:6-11 ESV
• Walk in wisdom toward others — Colossians 4:5 ESV
• Be imitators of God as beloved children — Ephesians 5:1 ESV
• Fix your eyes on Jesus, our perfect example — Hebrews 12:2 ESV

Quote

“In his life Christ is an example showing us how to live; in his death he is a sacrifice satisfying our sins; in his resurrection a conqueror; in his ascension a king; in his intercession a high priest.” — Martin Luther

Mike French
When You Need Forgiveness

“Whoever conceals their sins does not prosper, but the one who confesses and renounces them finds mercy.” (Prov. 28:13 NIV)

One of the greatest needs of every person is forgiveness

We all fall short. We all say things we shouldn’t, think things we shouldn’t, and do things we shouldn’t. Yet God, in His mercy, has made a way for our sins to be forgiven through Jesus Christ.

Many people carry the heavy burden of guilt long after God is willing to remove it

Like a traveler trying to climb a mountain with a backpack full of rocks, they struggle under a weight they were never meant to carry. The good news is that God invites us to come honestly before Him, confess our sins, and receive His forgiveness. We do not earn forgiveness by our good works; we receive it through God’s grace.

When we confess our sins, God does not merely overlook them—He forgives them and cleanses us

Scripture tells us that He removes our transgressions as far as the east is from the west. That means they are gone from His sight, never to be held against us again. Because we have been forgiven so completely, we are also called to extend that same forgiveness to others.

Don’t let guilt keep you from God

Let it lead you to God. His mercy is greater than your failures, and His grace is sufficient for every sin that is genuinely confessed and forsaken.

Additional Scriptures

• God is faithful and just to forgive us — 1 John 1:9 ESV
• He removes our transgressions far from us — Psalm 103:10-14 ESV
• Forgiven according to the riches of His grace — Ephesians 1:7 ESV
• Though your sins are scarlet, they shall be white as snow — Isaiah 1:18 ESV
• He casts our sins into the depths of the sea — Micah 7:18-19 ESV
• No condemnation for those in Christ Jesus — Romans 8:1 ESV

Therefore

• Forgive one another as Christ forgave you — Ephesians 4:32 ESV
• Forgive others when you pray — Mark 11:25 ESV
• Bear with and forgive one another — Colossians 3:13 ESV
• Draw near to the throne of grace with confidence — Hebrews 4:16 ESV

Quote

“To be a Christian means to forgive the inexcusable because God has forgiven the inexcusable in you.” — C. S. Lewis

PS: If this devotional blessed you today, I’d love for you to forward it to a friend who might need some encouragement too!

Mike French
When You Are Sad and Discouraged

“Why am I discouraged? Why is my heart so sad? I will put my hope in God! I will praise him again—my Savior and my God!” (Psalm 42:5-6 and also repeated in Psalm 42:11 NLT)

Discouragement and sadness are not new struggles

The writer of Psalm 42 experienced them deeply. In fact, he was so overwhelmed that he asked himself, “Why am I discouraged? Why is my heart so sad?” Yet he did not allow his feelings to have the final word. Instead, he reminded himself to put his hope in God.

One of the most encouraging aspects of this psalm is that the writer was honest about his emotions. He did not pretend everything was fine. He acknowledged his grief, his questions, and even his sense of being overwhelmed. Yet in the middle of it all, he chose to remember God’s faithfulness. Like waves crashing against a shoreline, discouragement may come repeatedly, but God’s unfailing love is greater still.

When sadness lingers, it is important to remember that feelings are real, but they are not always reliable guides. The psalmist teaches us to preach truth to ourselves. Rather than listening only to our discouragement, we must speak God’s promises to our hearts and place our hope in Him. The same God who sustained the psalmist remains our refuge today.

Psalms 42: 5-11 — Dealing with discouragement and sadness

 “5 Why am I discouraged? Why is my heart so sad? I will put my hope in God! I will praise him again—my Savior and

6 my God! Now I am deeply discouraged, but I will remember you— even from distant Mount Hermon, the source of the Jordan, from the land of Mount Mizar.

7 I hear the tumult of the raging seas as your waves and surging tides sweep over me.

8 But each day the LORD pours his unfailing love upon me, and through each night I sing his songs, praying to God who gives me life.

9 “O God my rock,” I cry, “why have you forgotten me? Why must I wander around in grief, oppressed by my enemies?” 

10 Their taunts break my bones. They scoff, “Where is this God of yours?”

11 Why am I discouraged? Why is my heart so sad? I will put my hope in God! I will praise him again— my Savior and my God!

Therefore

“Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.” (Josh. 1:9 ESV)

“But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me.” (2 Cor. 12:9 ESV)

Quotes

“The Christian life is not a constant high. I have my moments of deep discouragement. I have to go to God in prayer with tears in my eyes, and say, ‘O God, forgive me,’ or ‘Help me.’” — Billy Graham

“The remedy for discouragement is the Word of God. When you feed your heart and mind with its truth, you regain your perspective and find renewed strength.” — Warren Wiersbe

Mike French
When Someone Has Harmed You

“For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.” (Matt. 6:14-15 NIV)

Forgiveness is one of the most difficult commands in Scripture because it often feels undeserved

When someone wounds us deeply, our natural response is to hold onto the hurt, replay the offense, and wait for an apology that may never come. Yet forgiveness is not saying that what happened was acceptable. It is choosing to release the debt and leave justice in God’s hands.

Imagine carrying a heavy sack of rocks everywhere you go

Each rock represents a hurt, betrayal, or offense. The longer you carry it, the heavier it becomes. Forgiveness doesn’t excuse the offense; it simply puts the burden down and allows God to carry what you were never meant to bear.

Warning about not forgiving others

“But if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.” (Matt. 6:15 ESV)

Forgive someone who sins against you 490 times

“Then Peter came up and said to him, “Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?” Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you seven times, but seventy times seven.” (Matt. 18: 21-22 ESV)

Therefore

“Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.” (Ephesians 4:32 ESV)

Remember how much God has forgiven you

“He does not deal with us according to our sins, nor repay us according to our iniquities. For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is his steadfast love toward those who fear him; as far as the east is from the west, so far does he remove our transgressions from us. As a father shows compassion to his children, so the Lord shows compassion to those who fear him. For he knows our frame; he remembers that we are dust.” (Psalms 103:10-14 ESV)

Quote

“I can forgive, but I cannot forget, is only another way of saying, I will not forgive. Forgiveness ought to be like a cancelled note—torn in two, and burned up, so that it never can be shown against one.” — Henry Ward Beecher

Mike French
When You Need Wisdom

“If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.” (James 1:5 ESV)

Wisdom comes from the Lord

He gives it generously to those who ask. Jesus Christ Himself is our wisdom. Seek the wisdom from above, which is pure, peaceable, and full of mercy and good fruits. Wisdom is more precious than gold or silver, and those who find it are blessed.

Think of wisdom as a flashlight on a dark path

The flashlight may not show you the entire journey, but it gives enough light for the next step. Many people want God to reveal the whole plan before they move forward, but God often provides wisdom one step at a time. As we trust Him and obey what He has already shown us, He gives direction for the next step. Wisdom is not merely knowing what is right; it is applying God’s truth to everyday decisions.

King Solomon is a great example

When God offered him anything he desired, Solomon asked for wisdom to lead God’s people. Because he valued wisdom above wealth and power, God blessed him with wisdom and many other blessings as well. God still delights in giving wisdom to those who seek Him.

Additional Scriptures About Wisdom

Job 12:13 ESV – “With God are wisdom and might; he has counsel and understanding.”

Proverbs 2:6 ESV – “For the Lord gives wisdom; from his mouth come knowledge and understanding.”

1 Corinthians 1:30 ESV – “And because of him you are in Christ Jesus, who became to us wisdom from God, righteousness and sanctification and redemption…”

James 3:17 ESV – “But the wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, open to reason, full of mercy and good fruits, impartial and sincere.”

Proverbs 3:13-18 ESV – “Blessed is the one who finds wisdom, and the one who gets understanding, for the gain from her is better than gain from silver and her profit better than gold. She is more precious than jewels…”

Proverbs 16:16 ESV – “How much better to get wisdom than gold! To get understanding is to be chosen rather than silver.”

Proverbs 19:20 ESV – “Listen to advice and accept instruction, that you may gain wisdom in the future.”

Therefore

Ask God for wisdom in a specific area of your life today. Listen to godly advice and meditate on one of the Proverbs listed above. Write down one decision you need to make and seek God’s guidance concerning it. Trust Him to direct your steps as you walk in obedience to His Word.

“Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.” (Proverbs 3:5-6 ESV)

Prayer

Heavenly Father, I need Your wisdom today. Thank You for giving it generously when I ask. Help me to walk in Your wisdom, which is pure and full of mercy. Guide my decisions and direct my paths according to Your will. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Mike French
When You Suffer Grief and Trials

“In all this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to suffer grief in all kinds of trials. These have come so that the proven genuineness of your faith—of greater worth than gold, which perishes even though refined by fire—may result in praise, glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed.” (1 Peter 1:6-7 NIV)

No one enjoys going through trials. Whether it is the loss of a loved one, a health crisis, financial hardship, disappointment, or some other painful circumstance, trials can leave us feeling weary and discouraged. Yet Peter reminds us that even the most difficult experiences can serve a greater purpose in God’s hands.

Just as gold is refined by fire, our faith is often strengthened through testing. Trials reveal what we truly believe and teach us to depend more fully on God. While we may not understand why certain hardships come into our lives, we can trust that God is using them to shape our character and draw us closer to Himself.

Jesus never promised His followers a trouble-free life. In fact, He clearly said that we would face difficulties in this world (John 16:33). However, He also gave us a reason for hope: He has overcome the world. Because Christ is victorious, we can face life’s challenges with confidence, knowing that our trials are temporary but His promises are eternal.

James reminds us that those who remain steadfast under trial are blessed (James 1:12). God sees every struggle, every tear, and every act of faithfulness. He promises an eternal reward to those who continue trusting Him through life’s storms.

Therefore

“Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer.” (Rom. 12:12 ESV)

When trials come, choose hope over despair, patience over frustration, and prayer over worry. God often does His greatest work in us during our most difficult seasons.

“And after you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace, who has called you to his eternal glory in Christ, will himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you.” (1 Peter 5:10 ESV)

No trial lasts forever. After a season of testing, God promises to restore, strengthen, confirm, and establish His people. What feels overwhelming today is preparing you for greater strength tomorrow.

“Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.” (James 1:2-4 ESV)

Ask God to help you see trials from His perspective. The testing of your faith is producing perseverance, maturity, and spiritual growth that could come in no other way.

Quote

“The Lord’s mercy often rides to the door of our heart upon the black horse of affliction.” — Charles Spurgeon

Mike French
When You Are Worried

“Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life?” (Matt. 6:27 NIV)

Worry is one of the most common struggles people face

We worry about our health, finances, families, jobs, relationships, and the future. We worry about things that might happen and sometimes about things that never happen at all. Yet Jesus asked a simple question: “Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life?” (Matt. 6:27). The obvious answer is no one.

Worry promises to help us solve our problems, but it rarely does

Instead, it steals our peace, drains our energy, and distracts us from trusting God. Worry focuses our attention on what might go wrong, while faith focuses our attention on the God who is in control.

Jesus taught His followers not to worry about their daily needs (Matt. 6:25). He pointed to the birds of the air and the flowers of the field as evidence of God’s faithful care (Matt. 6:26-30). If God provides for His creation, how much more will He care for His children?

One reason worry is so destructive is because it pulls us into the future

We begin imagining problems that have not happened and may never happen. Jesus reminded His listeners that each day has enough challenges of its own (Matt. 6:34). God gives us grace for today. Tomorrow’s grace will be there when tomorrow arrives.

This does not mean we ignore responsibilities or fail to plan wisely. It means we refuse to carry burdens that belong to God. When we trust Him, we can face uncertainty with confidence, knowing that our Heavenly Father sees what lies ahead and is already there.

Therefore

“Then Jesus said to His disciples, ‘Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat, or about your body, what you will wear.’” (Luke 12:22 NIV)

Instead of worrying, bring your concerns to God in prayer (Phil. 4:6-7). Trust His wisdom, rely on His promises, and remember His faithfulness in the past. The same God who has cared for you before will continue to care for you today and tomorrow. Choose faith over fear and trust over worry.

“Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you.” (1 Pet. 5:7 NIV)

Quotes

“When I look back on all these worries, I remember the story of the old man who said on his deathbed that he had had a lot of trouble in his life, most of which had never happened.” — Winston Churchill

“Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow, it empties today of its strength.” — Corrie Ten Boom

Mike French
When you need guidance

“He guides the humble in what is right and teaches them his way.” (Psalm 25:9 NIV)

God guides in the paths of righteousness

“He restores my soul; He guides me in the paths of righteousness for the sake of His name.” (Psalm 23:3 ESV)

The Spirit of truth will guide you into all truth

“When the Spirit of truth comes, he will guide you into all the truth, for he will not speak on his own authority, but whatever he hears he will speak, and he will declare to you the things that are to come.” (John 16:13 ESV) 

Ask God to guide you

“Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you.” (Matt. 7:7 ESV)

“Teach me Your way, O LORD, and lead me on a level path, because of my oppressors.” (Psalm 27:11 ESV)

“If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him. But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the wind.” (James 1:5-6 ESV)

Therefore

“I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my eye upon you.” (Psalm 32:8 ESV)

“And whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear this command behind you: "This is the way. Walk in it.” (Isa. 30:21 ESV)

Quote

 “Does it make sense to pray for guidance about the future if we are not obeying in the thing that lies before us today? How many momentous events in Scripture depended on one person's seemingly small act of obedience! Rest assured: Do what God tells you to do now, and, depend upon it, you will be shown what to do next.” - Elisabeth Elliot

Mike French
When You Carry a Heavy Load

“Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest.” (Matt. 11:28 NASB)

Life has a way of piling burdens upon us

Sometimes the load comes from financial pressures, health concerns, family struggles, broken relationships, disappointments, or grief. Other times the burden is emotional or spiritual. We may appear fine on the outside while carrying a weight on the inside that few people know about.

Jesus understands the burdens we carry

He never promised that life would be free from trouble, but He did promise that we would not have to carry those burdens alone. His invitation is simple and direct: “Come to Me” (Matt. 11:28). He doesn’t tell us to figure everything out first. He doesn’t tell us to become stronger before coming. He simply invites us to bring our heavy load to Him.

The psalmist reminds us that the Lord bears us up daily (Psalm 68:19). Every day God provides the strength, grace, wisdom, and encouragement we need for that day’s challenges. We may not receive enough strength for next year, next month, or even next week, but God faithfully supplies what we need for today.

Jeremiah records God’s promise to satisfy the weary soul and replenish those who are faint and discouraged (Jer. 31:25). The world often offers temporary relief through distractions, possessions, or pleasures, but only God can truly refresh the soul. His presence brings peace that circumstances cannot take away.

When life’s burdens cause us to stumble, the Lord does not abandon us

Psalm 145 assures us that He upholds those who are falling and lifts up those who are bowed down (Psalm 145:14). He is a loving Father who comes alongside His children when they are weak and overwhelmed.

God also intends for us to help one another. Sometimes He lightens our load through the encouragement, prayers, and practical help of fellow believers. We were never meant to walk through life’s difficulties alone. Scripture tells us, “Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ” (Gal. 6:2).

Therefore

“Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” (Matt. 11:29-30 NIV)

“Cast your burden on the Lord, and he will sustain you; he will never permit the righteous to be moved.” (Psalm 55:22 ESV)

“Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.” (Gal. 6:2 ESV)

Whatever burden you are carrying today, bring it to Jesus (Matt. 11:28-30). Trust Him with what you cannot handle on your own. Let Him strengthen you, sustain you, and give you rest (Psalm 55:22). Then, as God helps you carry your load, look for opportunities to help carry the burdens of others (Gal. 6:2).

Quote

“Heaven gives us hope and makes our present burdens easier to bear.” — Billy Graham

Mike French