“Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.”
(1 John 4:8 NIV)

What Is Agape Love?

Agape is the word used to describe God’s immeasurable and incomparable love. It is a selfless, sacrificial love that seeks the good of others without demanding anything in return.

God does not merely feel love—God is love. And He demonstrated His love toward us in the greatest possible way: by giving His Son for people who could never earn or deserve such a gift.

The Greatest Kind of Love

The greatest kind of love is agape love—love that expresses itself through action.

God demonstrated this love by sending His only begotten Son, Jesus Christ, to die on the cross for us and provide the free gift of eternal life to everyone who believes in Him (John 3:16-17).

Jesus then commanded His followers to demonstrate this same kind of love toward one another. In fact, He said our love would be one of the distinguishing marks by which others recognize that we belong to Him.

“A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”
(John 13:34-35 ESV)

Measure Your Love by God’s Definition

It is easy to say, “I love people.” But Scripture gives us a practical way to examine whether our actions match our words.

Ask yourself how your love compares with God’s definition:

• Love is patient and kind

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.”
(1 Cor. 13:4 NIV)

Am I patient with difficult people? Do I treat others with kindness even when they do not treat me kindly?

• Love is not self-seeking

“It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.”
(1 Cor. 13:5 NIV)

True love is not constantly asking, What am I getting out of this? Instead, it looks for ways to serve, forgive and encourage others.

• Love rejoices with the truth

“Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.”
(1 Cor. 13:6 NIV)

Godly love never celebrates what is wrong. It loves people while remaining faithful to what is true.

• Love always perseveres

“It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”
(1 Cor. 13:7 NIV)

Agape love does not disappear when relationships become difficult. It continues to hope, pray, forgive and seek what is best for others.

• Love never fails

“Love never fails.”
(1 Cor. 13:8 NIV)

Many things we value in this life are temporary, but love has eternal significance.

A Love Checkup

First Corinthians 13 gives us a wonderful spiritual checkup. Instead of reading the passage only as a description of love, make it personal.

Am I patient?
Am I kind?
Am I envious or boastful?
Am I easily angered?
Am I keeping a record of someone’s wrongs?
Am I protecting, trusting, hoping and persevering?

None of us will do these things perfectly. That is why we continually need God to work in our hearts. The closer we walk with Him, the more His love should become visible through us.

Therefore

“And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.”
(1 Cor. 13:13 NIV)

“Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God.”
(1 John 4:7 ESV)

“Let all that you do be done in love.”
(1 Cor. 16:14 ESV)

“Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins.” (1 Peter 4:8 ESV)

Today, ask God to show you one person who especially needs His love. Then don’t merely tell that person you care—put love into action through kindness, encouragement, forgiveness, generosity or help.

Quote

“In the New Testament, love is more of a verb than a noun. It has more to do with acting than with feeling. The call to love is not so much a call to a certain state of feeling as it is to a quality of action.”
— R. C. Sproul

“God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God.” (Rom. 8:28, NLT)

God Is Already at Work

Sometimes we face problems we cannot solve or futures we cannot predict. But even when life seems confusing, God sees the finished picture. You may not understand what He is doing, but you can trust Him.

Things Will Work Out Because…

● God cares for you: “Casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you.” (1 Peter 5:7 ESV)

● God hears you: “Before they call I will answer.” (Isa. 65:24)

● God is your Shepherd: “The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want.” (Psalm 23:1 ESV)

● God supplies your needs: “My God will supply every need of yours.” (Phil. 4:19 ESV)

● God protects you: “The LORD heard him; he saved him out of all his troubles.” (Psalm 34:6)

● God will care for you throughout life: “I am your God and will take care of you.” (Isa. 46:4 GNT)

Therefore

You do not need to know exactly how everything will work out. You only need to know Who is holding you while it does.

Trust God’s promises, give Him your anxiety, and move forward in faith.

“Fear not, for I am with you.” (Isa. 41:10 ESV)

A Call to Action

Place your greatest concern in God’s hands and pray:

“Lord, I don’t know how this will work out, but I know You care for me. I trust You with this situation and my future.”

Then leave it with Him.

Quote

“’Tis grace has brought me safe thus far and grace will lead me home.” — John Newton

“…The eyes of the LORD search the whole earth in order to strengthen those whose hearts are fully committed to him…” (2 Chron. 16:9 NLT)

God Is the Source of Your Strength

There are times when you simply feel worn down. Your circumstances may not change immediately, but God can strengthen your heart in the middle of them.

“The way of the Lord is strength for the upright…” (Prov. 10:29)

God does not expect you to face life in your own strength. Look to Him and trust Him to give you what you need.

The Lord Is Your Strength

“The Lord is my Rock and my Fortress and my Deliverer. My God, my strength, in whom I will trust; my shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold.” (Psalm 18:2)

When you feel weak, remember who God is. He is your Rock, Fortress, Deliverer, Shield, and Stronghold. Because He is with you, you do not need to live in fear.

“The Lord is my Light and my Salvation, whom shall I fear? The Lord is the strength of my life, of whom shall I be afraid?” (Psalm 27:1)

Trust Him and He Will Help You

“The Lord is my strength and my shield; my heart trusted in Him, and I am helped…” (Psalm 28:7)

Notice the connection: my heart trusted in Him, and I am helped. Instead of depending entirely on yourself, place your confidence in God.

Therefore

“Wait on the Lord; be of good courage, and He shall strengthen your heart; wait, I say, on the Lord!” (Psalm 27:14)

Whatever you are facing today, don’t give up. Wait on the Lord. Trust Him. Pray. He will give you the strength you need to keep going.

“The Lord God is my strength; He will make my feet like deer’s feet, and He will make me walk on my high hills.” (Hab. 3:19)

Quote

“Trying to do the Lord’s work in your own strength is the most confusing, exhausting, and tedious of all work. But when you are filled with the Holy Spirit, then the ministry of Jesus just flows out of you.” — Corrie Ten Boom

“With long life I will satisfy him and show him my salvation.” (Psalm 91:16 NIV)

Getting Older Is a Gift

Growing older brings changes, but it does not make us useless. Every day is a gift from God and another opportunity to love, serve, encourage others, and bear fruit for Him.

As long as God gives you breath, He still has a purpose for your life.

God Will Sustain You

“Even to your old age and gray hairs I am he, I am he who will sustain you. I have made you and I will carry you; I will sustain you and I will rescue you.” (Isa. 46:4 NIV)

Our strength may change with age, but God’s strength never does. He promises to carry and sustain us throughout our lives.

Still Bearing Fruit

“They will still bear fruit in old age, they will stay fresh and green…” (Psalm 92:14 NIV)

You can still pray, encourage others, share your wisdom, serve, and tell others about Jesus. You are never too old to be useful to God.

Therefore

“Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day.” (2 Cor. 4:16 NIV)

Don’t spend your days wishing you were younger. Thank God for today and ask Him how He wants to use you.

“But those who trust in the LORD will find new strength.” (Isa. 40:31 NLT)

Quote

“In the end, it’s not the years in your life that count. It’s the life in your years.” — Abraham Lincoln

“Then our mouth was filled with laughter, and our tongue with shouts of joy; then they said among the nations, ‘The Lord has done great things for them.’” (Psalm 126:2 ESV)

Laughter Is a Gift From God

Have you ever been in a serious situation when something unexpectedly funny happened and suddenly everyone started laughing? For a few moments, the tension disappeared. The problem may not have changed, but somehow you felt better and were able to face it again with a fresh perspective.

Laughter is one of God’s wonderful gifts

Psalm 126 describes God’s people looking back at what He had done for them. Their circumstances had changed so dramatically that their mouths were filled with laughter and their tongues with shouts of joy.

Sometimes laughter comes simply because something is funny. At other times, it comes from deep within because you suddenly realize, “Look what the Lord has done!”

There Is a Time for Laughter

“A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance.” (Eccles. 3:4 ESV)

The Bible is realistic about life. There is a time to cry. There is a time to grieve. There are circumstances so painful that laughter would be inappropriate.

But those seasons don’t last forever.

There is also a time to laugh.

God created us with the ability to experience joy, humor, and delight. We shouldn’t become so burdened by the difficulties of life that we forget how to enjoy the good things God has placed around us.

Your Tears Won’t Last Forever

“…Blessed are you who weep now, for you shall laugh.” (Luke 6:21 ESV)

Perhaps you’re going through a season when laughter seems far away. Your circumstances may be painful, and you may wonder whether you will ever feel joyful again.

Jesus reminds us that sorrow isn’t the end of the story.

God sees every tear. He knows every heartache. And there will come a day when sorrow gives way to joy.

As the Psalmist said, “…weeping may stay for the night, but rejoicing comes in the morning.” (Psalm 30:5 NIV)

God Can Fill Your Mouth With Laughter

“He will yet fill your mouth with laughter and your lips with shouts of joy.” (Job 8:21 NIV)

Don’t lose your capacity for joy

Look for reasons to smile. Spend time with people who make you laugh. Enjoy the humorous moments that come your way. Learn to laugh at yourself when appropriate. And most importantly, remember the good things God has done for you.

Laughter doesn’t mean you aren’t taking life seriously. Sometimes it simply means you’re refusing to allow life’s difficulties to steal every bit of your joy.

Therefore

“A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a broken spirit saps a person’s strength.” (Prov. 17:22 NLT)

“A glad heart makes a cheerful face, but by sorrow of heart the spirit is crushed.” (Prov. 15:13)

God has given us laughter for a reason. Receive it as one of His gifts. When it’s time to mourn, mourn. When it’s time to cry, cry. But when God gives you a reason to laugh, don’t be afraid to laugh!

Look around today for something that brings joy to your heart. Remember something funny. Share a smile with someone. Thank God for His goodness.

And when you remember the great things the Lord has done, let your mouth be filled with laughter and your tongue with shouts of joy.

Quote

“Laughter is the most beautiful and beneficial therapy God ever granted humanity.” — Chuck Swindoll

“Avoiding a fight is a mark of honor; only fools insist on quarreling.” (Prov. 20:3 NLT)

You Don’t Have to Win Every Argument

Two people can be standing face-to-face, both convinced they are right, and neither willing to back down. One sharp word leads to another. Voices get louder. Tempers rise. Before long, something is said or done that cannot easily be taken back.

It happens in marriages, families, workplaces, churches, neighborhoods, and even between complete strangers. Today, it happens constantly on social media, where people who would probably never speak harshly to someone face-to-face attack one another from behind a screen.

The Bible gives us a better way

Walking away from a fight doesn’t necessarily mean you’re weak or wrong. In fact, the verse above calls avoiding a fight “a mark of honor.” Sometimes the strongest thing you can do is refuse to participate in a quarrel.

Quit Early Before a Quarrel Begins

“The beginning of strife is like letting out water, so quit before the quarrel breaks out.” (Prov. 17:14)

Imagine a small crack developing in a dam. At first, only a little water escapes. But if the opening gets larger, the force of the water can become unstoppable.

That’s the picture Scripture gives us of a quarrel.

Most fights don’t begin as big fights. They begin with a comment, an accusation, a misunderstanding, or an angry response. Then someone retaliates, and the argument grows.

That’s why the Bible says to quit early.

When you recognize that a conversation is turning into a quarrel, don’t keep adding fuel to it. Lower your voice. Refuse to insult. Don’t retaliate. And, when necessary, simply walk away.

Do What Is Honorable

“Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all.” (Rom. 12:17 ESV)

Our natural reaction when someone hurts or insults us is often to respond in kind. If they raise their voice, we raise ours. If they insult us, we want to insult them back.

But Christians are called to respond differently

You cannot always control what someone else says or does, but you can control how you respond. Ask yourself, “What response would honor God in this situation?”

Sometimes being right is less important than being Christlike.

Be Silent and Let the Lord Fight for You

“The Lord will fight for you, and you have only to be silent.” (Exo. 14:14 ESV)

There are times when defending yourself only makes matters worse. You may desperately want to straighten someone out, prove your point, or have the last word.

But sometimes the wisest response is silence

Silence does not mean that you approve of wrongdoing or that serious problems should never be addressed. It means you don’t have to respond to every insult, accusation, or provocation.

There are battles you don’t need to fight because you can place them into God’s hands.

Pursue Peace

Being a peacemaker doesn’t mean avoiding every disagreement. There are times when truth must be spoken and problems must be confronted. But even then, we can speak the truth without becoming quarrelsome.

Before responding in anger, ask yourself:

Does this need to be said?
Does it need to be said by me?
Does it need to be said right now?
Can I say it in a way that honors Christ?

Sometimes the most godly response is to speak. Sometimes it is to listen. And sometimes it is to remain silent and walk away.

Therefore

“Finally, all of you, have unity of mind, sympathy, brotherly love, a tender heart, and a humble mind. Do not repay evil for evil or reviling for reviling, but on the contrary, bless, for to this you were called, that you may obtain a blessing. For ‘Whoever desires to love life and see good days, let him keep his tongue from evil and his lips from speaking deceit; let him turn away from evil and do good; let him seek peace and pursue it. For the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous, and his ears are open to their prayer. But the face of the Lord is against those who do evil.’” (1 Peter 3:8-12 ESV)

The next time someone tries to pull you into a fight, remember that you have a choice. You don’t have to answer anger with anger or insult with insult.

Guard your words. Control your temper. Do what is honorable. Seek peace and pursue it.

You don’t have to win the argument. You need to honor God in how you handle it.

“There is none like You, O Lord; You are great, and great is Your name in might.” (Jer. 10:6)

The everlasting Creator

“Have you not known? Have you not heard? The Lord is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He does not faint or grow weary; his understanding is unsearchable.” (Isa. 40:28 ESV)

Greatness, power, glory, victory, and majesty

“Yours, O Lord, is the greatness and the power and the glory and the victory and the majesty, indeed everything that is in the heavens and the earth; Yours is the dominion, O Lord, and You exalt Yourself as head over all.” (1 Chron. 29:11)

The God of gods and Lord of lords

“For the Lord your God is God of gods and Lord of lords, the great, the mighty, and the awesome God, who is not partial and takes no bribe.” (Deut. 10:17 ESV)

Greatly to be praised

“For great is the Lord, and greatly to be praised; He also is to be feared above all gods.” (1 Chron. 16:25)

“For God is the King of all the earth; sing praises with a skillful psalm.” (Psalm 47:7)

“Cry aloud and shout for joy, O inhabitant of Zion, for great in your midst is the Holy One of Israel.” (Isa. 12:6)

Therefore

“I said, ‘I beseech You, O Lord God of heaven, the great and awesome God, who preserves the covenant and lovingkindness for those who love Him and keep His commandments,’” (Neh. 1:5)

Quote

“If God is the Creator of the entire universe, then it must follow that He is the Lord of the whole universe. No part of the world is outside of His lordship. That means that no part of my life must be outside of His lordship.” — R. C. Sproul

“There is none like You, O Lord; You are great, and great is Your name in might.” (Jer. 10:6)

The everlasting Creator

“Have you not known? Have you not heard? The Lord is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He does not faint or grow weary; his understanding is unsearchable.” (Isa. 40:28 ESV)

Greatness, power, glory, victory, and majesty

“Yours, O Lord, is the greatness and the power and the glory and the victory and the majesty, indeed everything that is in the heavens and the earth; Yours is the dominion, O Lord, and You exalt Yourself as head over all.” (1 Chron. 29:11)

The God of gods and Lord of lords

“For the Lord your God is God of gods and Lord of lords, the great, the mighty, and the awesome God, who is not partial and takes no bribe.” (Deut. 10:17 ESV)

Greatly to be praised

“For great is the Lord, and greatly to be praised; He also is to be feared above all gods.” (1 Chron. 16:25)

“For God is the King of all the earth; sing praises with a skillful psalm.” (Psalm 47:7)

“Cry aloud and shout for joy, O inhabitant of Zion, for great in your midst is the Holy One of Israel.” (Isa. 12:6)

Therefore

“I said, ‘I beseech You, O Lord God of heaven, the great and awesome God, who preserves the covenant and lovingkindness for those who love Him and keep His commandments,’” (Neh. 1:5)

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“If God is the Creator of the entire universe, then it must follow that He is the Lord of the whole universe. No part of the world is outside of His lordship. That means that no part of my life must be outside of His lordship.” — R. C. Sproul

“Arise, shine, for your light has come, and the glory of the Lord has risen upon you. For behold, darkness shall cover the earth, and thick darkness the peoples; but the Lord will arise upon you, and his glory will be seen upon you. And nations shall come to your light, and kings to the brightness of your rising.” (Isa. 60:1-3 ESV)

When You Fall… Arise

“Rejoice not over me, O my enemy; when I fall, I shall rise; when I sit in darkness, the Lord will be a light to me.” (Micah 7:8 ESV)

Failure is not final for the child of God. The enemy may try to speak defeat over your life, but God speaks restoration. You may fall, but you are not finished. In Christ, there is always a rising again.

It Is Your Task… Arise

“Arise, for it is your task, and we are with you; be strong and do it.” (Ezra 10:4 ESV)

There are moments when God calls you to stand up and step forward even when you feel weak. His command is often accompanied by His promise: you are not alone. Strength is found not in your ability, but in His presence with you.

Shake Yourself From the Dust… Arise

“Shake yourself from the dust and arise; be seated, O Jerusalem; loose the bonds from your neck, O captive daughter of Zion.” (Isa. 52:2 ESV)

There are times when you must refuse to stay where defeat has tried to place you. Shake off discouragement. Break agreement with despair. God calls you out of bondage into freedom, out of shame into dignity, out of the dust into purpose.

Even If You Fall Again and Again… Arise

“For the righteous falls seven times and rises again, but the wicked stumble in times of calamity.” (Prov. 24:16 ESV)

The mark of the righteous is not perfection—it is perseverance. You may stumble more than once, but grace gives you the strength to rise again. God is not finished with you because you have fallen; He is faithful to lift you back up.

Therefore… Stand and Rise

“But rise and stand upon your feet, for I have appeared to you for this purpose, to appoint you as a servant and witness to the things in which you have seen me and to those in which I will appear to you…” (Acts 26:16 ESV)

God does not reveal Himself to leave you in defeat. He reveals Himself to raise you up for purpose. Every encounter with Him is an invitation to stand, to serve, and to move forward in His calling.

“He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; he set my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand.” (Psalm 40:2 NIV)

God is the lifter of your head. What held you down cannot hold you forever when His hand is upon your life. He sets your feet on solid ground so you can stand again with confidence.

Quotes

“Little minds are tamed and subdued by misfortune; but great minds rise above them.” — Washington Irving

“Families, friends and communities often find a source of courage rising up from within. Indeed, sadly, it seems that it is tragedy that often draws out the most and the best from the human spirit.” — Queen Elizabeth II

“The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson