When Someone Has Harmed You

“For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.” (Matt. 6:14-15 NIV)

Forgiveness is one of the most difficult commands in Scripture because it often feels undeserved

When someone wounds us deeply, our natural response is to hold onto the hurt, replay the offense, and wait for an apology that may never come. Yet forgiveness is not saying that what happened was acceptable. It is choosing to release the debt and leave justice in God’s hands.

Imagine carrying a heavy sack of rocks everywhere you go

Each rock represents a hurt, betrayal, or offense. The longer you carry it, the heavier it becomes. Forgiveness doesn’t excuse the offense; it simply puts the burden down and allows God to carry what you were never meant to bear.

Warning about not forgiving others

“But if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.” (Matt. 6:15 ESV)

Forgive someone who sins against you 490 times

“Then Peter came up and said to him, “Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?” Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you seven times, but seventy times seven.” (Matt. 18: 21-22 ESV)

Therefore

“Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.” (Ephesians 4:32 ESV)

Remember how much God has forgiven you

“He does not deal with us according to our sins, nor repay us according to our iniquities. For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is his steadfast love toward those who fear him; as far as the east is from the west, so far does he remove our transgressions from us. As a father shows compassion to his children, so the Lord shows compassion to those who fear him. For he knows our frame; he remembers that we are dust.” (Psalms 103:10-14 ESV)

Quote

“I can forgive, but I cannot forget, is only another way of saying, I will not forgive. Forgiveness ought to be like a cancelled note—torn in two, and burned up, so that it never can be shown against one.” — Henry Ward Beecher

Mike French
When You Need Wisdom

“If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.” (James 1:5 ESV)

Wisdom comes from the Lord

He gives it generously to those who ask. Jesus Christ Himself is our wisdom. Seek the wisdom from above, which is pure, peaceable, and full of mercy and good fruits. Wisdom is more precious than gold or silver, and those who find it are blessed.

Think of wisdom as a flashlight on a dark path

The flashlight may not show you the entire journey, but it gives enough light for the next step. Many people want God to reveal the whole plan before they move forward, but God often provides wisdom one step at a time. As we trust Him and obey what He has already shown us, He gives direction for the next step. Wisdom is not merely knowing what is right; it is applying God’s truth to everyday decisions.

King Solomon is a great example

When God offered him anything he desired, Solomon asked for wisdom to lead God’s people. Because he valued wisdom above wealth and power, God blessed him with wisdom and many other blessings as well. God still delights in giving wisdom to those who seek Him.

Additional Scriptures About Wisdom

Job 12:13 ESV – “With God are wisdom and might; he has counsel and understanding.”

Proverbs 2:6 ESV – “For the Lord gives wisdom; from his mouth come knowledge and understanding.”

1 Corinthians 1:30 ESV – “And because of him you are in Christ Jesus, who became to us wisdom from God, righteousness and sanctification and redemption…”

James 3:17 ESV – “But the wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, open to reason, full of mercy and good fruits, impartial and sincere.”

Proverbs 3:13-18 ESV – “Blessed is the one who finds wisdom, and the one who gets understanding, for the gain from her is better than gain from silver and her profit better than gold. She is more precious than jewels…”

Proverbs 16:16 ESV – “How much better to get wisdom than gold! To get understanding is to be chosen rather than silver.”

Proverbs 19:20 ESV – “Listen to advice and accept instruction, that you may gain wisdom in the future.”

Therefore

Ask God for wisdom in a specific area of your life today. Listen to godly advice and meditate on one of the Proverbs listed above. Write down one decision you need to make and seek God’s guidance concerning it. Trust Him to direct your steps as you walk in obedience to His Word.

“Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.” (Proverbs 3:5-6 ESV)

Prayer

Heavenly Father, I need Your wisdom today. Thank You for giving it generously when I ask. Help me to walk in Your wisdom, which is pure and full of mercy. Guide my decisions and direct my paths according to Your will. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Mike French
When You Suffer Grief and Trials

“In all this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to suffer grief in all kinds of trials. These have come so that the proven genuineness of your faith—of greater worth than gold, which perishes even though refined by fire—may result in praise, glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed.” (1 Peter 1:6-7 NIV)

No one enjoys going through trials. Whether it is the loss of a loved one, a health crisis, financial hardship, disappointment, or some other painful circumstance, trials can leave us feeling weary and discouraged. Yet Peter reminds us that even the most difficult experiences can serve a greater purpose in God’s hands.

Just as gold is refined by fire, our faith is often strengthened through testing. Trials reveal what we truly believe and teach us to depend more fully on God. While we may not understand why certain hardships come into our lives, we can trust that God is using them to shape our character and draw us closer to Himself.

Jesus never promised His followers a trouble-free life. In fact, He clearly said that we would face difficulties in this world (John 16:33). However, He also gave us a reason for hope: He has overcome the world. Because Christ is victorious, we can face life’s challenges with confidence, knowing that our trials are temporary but His promises are eternal.

James reminds us that those who remain steadfast under trial are blessed (James 1:12). God sees every struggle, every tear, and every act of faithfulness. He promises an eternal reward to those who continue trusting Him through life’s storms.

Therefore

“Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer.” (Rom. 12:12 ESV)

When trials come, choose hope over despair, patience over frustration, and prayer over worry. God often does His greatest work in us during our most difficult seasons.

“And after you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace, who has called you to his eternal glory in Christ, will himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you.” (1 Peter 5:10 ESV)

No trial lasts forever. After a season of testing, God promises to restore, strengthen, confirm, and establish His people. What feels overwhelming today is preparing you for greater strength tomorrow.

“Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.” (James 1:2-4 ESV)

Ask God to help you see trials from His perspective. The testing of your faith is producing perseverance, maturity, and spiritual growth that could come in no other way.

Quote

“The Lord’s mercy often rides to the door of our heart upon the black horse of affliction.” — Charles Spurgeon

Mike French
When You Are Worried

“Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life?” (Matt. 6:27 NIV)

Worry is one of the most common struggles people face

We worry about our health, finances, families, jobs, relationships, and the future. We worry about things that might happen and sometimes about things that never happen at all. Yet Jesus asked a simple question: “Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life?” (Matt. 6:27). The obvious answer is no one.

Worry promises to help us solve our problems, but it rarely does

Instead, it steals our peace, drains our energy, and distracts us from trusting God. Worry focuses our attention on what might go wrong, while faith focuses our attention on the God who is in control.

Jesus taught His followers not to worry about their daily needs (Matt. 6:25). He pointed to the birds of the air and the flowers of the field as evidence of God’s faithful care (Matt. 6:26-30). If God provides for His creation, how much more will He care for His children?

One reason worry is so destructive is because it pulls us into the future

We begin imagining problems that have not happened and may never happen. Jesus reminded His listeners that each day has enough challenges of its own (Matt. 6:34). God gives us grace for today. Tomorrow’s grace will be there when tomorrow arrives.

This does not mean we ignore responsibilities or fail to plan wisely. It means we refuse to carry burdens that belong to God. When we trust Him, we can face uncertainty with confidence, knowing that our Heavenly Father sees what lies ahead and is already there.

Therefore

“Then Jesus said to His disciples, ‘Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat, or about your body, what you will wear.’” (Luke 12:22 NIV)

Instead of worrying, bring your concerns to God in prayer (Phil. 4:6-7). Trust His wisdom, rely on His promises, and remember His faithfulness in the past. The same God who has cared for you before will continue to care for you today and tomorrow. Choose faith over fear and trust over worry.

“Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you.” (1 Pet. 5:7 NIV)

Quotes

“When I look back on all these worries, I remember the story of the old man who said on his deathbed that he had had a lot of trouble in his life, most of which had never happened.” — Winston Churchill

“Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow, it empties today of its strength.” — Corrie Ten Boom

Mike French
When you need guidance

“He guides the humble in what is right and teaches them his way.” (Psalm 25:9 NIV)

God guides in the paths of righteousness

“He restores my soul; He guides me in the paths of righteousness for the sake of His name.” (Psalm 23:3 ESV)

The Spirit of truth will guide you into all truth

“When the Spirit of truth comes, he will guide you into all the truth, for he will not speak on his own authority, but whatever he hears he will speak, and he will declare to you the things that are to come.” (John 16:13 ESV) 

Ask God to guide you

“Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you.” (Matt. 7:7 ESV)

“Teach me Your way, O LORD, and lead me on a level path, because of my oppressors.” (Psalm 27:11 ESV)

“If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him. But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the wind.” (James 1:5-6 ESV)

Therefore

“I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my eye upon you.” (Psalm 32:8 ESV)

“And whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear this command behind you: "This is the way. Walk in it.” (Isa. 30:21 ESV)

Quote

 “Does it make sense to pray for guidance about the future if we are not obeying in the thing that lies before us today? How many momentous events in Scripture depended on one person's seemingly small act of obedience! Rest assured: Do what God tells you to do now, and, depend upon it, you will be shown what to do next.” - Elisabeth Elliot

Mike French
When You Carry a Heavy Load

“Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest.” (Matt. 11:28 NASB)

Life has a way of piling burdens upon us

Sometimes the load comes from financial pressures, health concerns, family struggles, broken relationships, disappointments, or grief. Other times the burden is emotional or spiritual. We may appear fine on the outside while carrying a weight on the inside that few people know about.

Jesus understands the burdens we carry

He never promised that life would be free from trouble, but He did promise that we would not have to carry those burdens alone. His invitation is simple and direct: “Come to Me” (Matt. 11:28). He doesn’t tell us to figure everything out first. He doesn’t tell us to become stronger before coming. He simply invites us to bring our heavy load to Him.

The psalmist reminds us that the Lord bears us up daily (Psalm 68:19). Every day God provides the strength, grace, wisdom, and encouragement we need for that day’s challenges. We may not receive enough strength for next year, next month, or even next week, but God faithfully supplies what we need for today.

Jeremiah records God’s promise to satisfy the weary soul and replenish those who are faint and discouraged (Jer. 31:25). The world often offers temporary relief through distractions, possessions, or pleasures, but only God can truly refresh the soul. His presence brings peace that circumstances cannot take away.

When life’s burdens cause us to stumble, the Lord does not abandon us

Psalm 145 assures us that He upholds those who are falling and lifts up those who are bowed down (Psalm 145:14). He is a loving Father who comes alongside His children when they are weak and overwhelmed.

God also intends for us to help one another. Sometimes He lightens our load through the encouragement, prayers, and practical help of fellow believers. We were never meant to walk through life’s difficulties alone. Scripture tells us, “Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ” (Gal. 6:2).

Therefore

“Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” (Matt. 11:29-30 NIV)

“Cast your burden on the Lord, and he will sustain you; he will never permit the righteous to be moved.” (Psalm 55:22 ESV)

“Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.” (Gal. 6:2 ESV)

Whatever burden you are carrying today, bring it to Jesus (Matt. 11:28-30). Trust Him with what you cannot handle on your own. Let Him strengthen you, sustain you, and give you rest (Psalm 55:22). Then, as God helps you carry your load, look for opportunities to help carry the burdens of others (Gal. 6:2).

Quote

“Heaven gives us hope and makes our present burdens easier to bear.” — Billy Graham

Mike French
When You’re Tempted to Be Greedy

“Such are the ways of everyone who is greedy for unjust gain; it takes away the life of its possessors.” (Prov. 1:19 ESV)

Greed is one of the most deceptive sins because it often disguises itself as ambition, success, or simply wanting a little more. There is nothing wrong with working hard, planning wisely, or providing for your family. The problem begins when possessions, wealth, or personal gain become more important than our relationship with God and our concern for others.

Jesus addressed this issue when a man asked Him to settle a dispute over an inheritance. Instead of taking sides, Jesus exposed the deeper problem lurking beneath the request. He warned the crowd to be on guard against every form of greed because life is not measured by what we own. To illustrate His point, He told the story of a wealthy farmer whose fields produced an abundant harvest.

The man’s mistake was not that he was successful. His mistake was believing that his possessions could provide the security and satisfaction that only God can give. His plans revolved entirely around himself. He never considered God’s purpose, God’s kingdom, or helping others. He trusted in his wealth instead of trusting in the Lord. That very night his life ended, and all he had accumulated was left behind.

Greed not only damages our relationship with God, but it also harms the people around us. Proverbs warns that greed troubles a person’s own household. Families have been divided, friendships destroyed, and churches wounded because someone wanted more than what God had provided.

The good news is that believers are not defined by their past sins. Paul reminded the Corinthians that some of them had once lived greedy and selfish lives, but through Christ they had been washed, sanctified, and justified. God can transform a greedy heart into a generous one.

Contentment is one of the greatest safeguards against greed. When we recognize that everything we have comes from God, gratitude replaces covetousness. Instead of asking, “How much more can I get?” we begin asking, “How can I use what God has given me to honor Him and bless others?”

Therefore

“A greedy man stirs up strife, but the one who trusts in the Lord will be enriched.” (Prov. 28:25 ESV)

“Put to death therefore what is earthly in you: sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry.” (Col. 3:5 ESV)

Greed is never satisfied. The more it gets, the more it wants. Trusting God produces contentment, peace, and true riches that cannot be measured by earthly possessions. Ask God to help you hold loosely to the things of this world and tightly to the treasures of His kingdom.

Quotes

“He who is not contented with what he has, would not be contented with what he would like to have.” — Socrates

“Successful people are always looking for opportunities to help others. Unsuccessful people are always asking, ‘What’s in it for me?’” — Brian Tracy

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When You See Evil People Prosper

“For I envied the arrogant when I saw the prosperity of the wicked.” (Psalm 73:3 ESV)

One of the oldest questions people ask is, “Why do evil people seem to prosper while those who seek to do right often struggle?” The psalmist Asaph wrestled with this very issue. As he looked around, he saw arrogant and wicked people enjoying success, wealth, and influence, and he found himself becoming envious (Psalm 73:2-3).

Most believers have experienced similar feelings at one time or another

We see dishonest people get ahead, corrupt individuals gain power, and those who ignore God appear to live carefree lives. It can seem unfair and cause us to question whether righteousness is worth pursuing.

Yet Scripture repeatedly warns us not to envy those who prosper through sinful means. Their success is temporary, while God’s blessings are eternal. Solomon urged God’s people to remain zealous in their fear of the Lord rather than becoming jealous of sinners (Proverbs 23:17). He also warned against admiring the ways of violent or wicked people (Proverbs 3:31).

The problem with envy is that it focuses our attention on what others possess rather than on what God has promised. It causes us to measure life by temporary circumstances instead of eternal realities. Asaph eventually found peace when he entered God’s presence and gained God’s perspective. He realized that earthly prosperity is fleeting, but a relationship with God is priceless (Psalm 73:16-28).

The wicked may appear successful for a season, but their triumph is short-lived (Job 20:5). Wealth, power, and influence cannot provide lasting security, nor can they follow anyone into eternity. God’s children possess something far greater—His presence, His promises, His peace, and the assurance of eternal life through Christ.

Therefore

When you see evil people prosper, resist the temptation to compare your life with theirs. Instead, focus on your walk with God and trust His timing. Be patient and allow Him to work according to His perfect plan. Continue to pursue righteousness, knowing that God’s rewards are far greater and far more lasting than any temporary success this world can offer.

Rather than responding to evil with bitterness or envy, choose to live with humility, kindness, and love toward others (1 Peter 3:8-12). God’s eyes are upon the righteous, and His ears are attentive to their prayers. In the end, His justice will prevail, and His faithfulness will never fail.

“Be still in the presence of the LORD, and wait patiently for him to act. Don’t worry about evil people who prosper or fret about their wicked schemes.“ (Psalm 37:7 NLT)

Quotes

“The wicked exist in this world either to be converted or that through them the good may exercise patience.” — Saint Augustine

“The riches of His free grace cause me daily to triumph over all the temptations of the wicked one, who is very vigilant, and seeks all occasions to disturb me.” — George Whitefield

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Mike French
When You Feel Angry

“Be not quick in your spirit to become angry, for anger lodges in the bosom of fools.” (Eccles. 7:9 ESV)

Anger is one of the strongest emotions we experience

It can arise when we are hurt, treated unfairly, misunderstood, disappointed, or offended. While anger itself is not always sinful, what we do with our anger often determines whether it becomes a force for good or a tool for destruction.

Even Jesus experienced righteous anger

He was angered by the misuse of God’s temple, by hypocrisy, and by the hard-heartedness of those who refused to acknowledge the truth (John 2:15-17; Mark 3:5). Yet His anger was always controlled, purposeful, and free from sin. He never lashed out selfishly or sought revenge.

Most of our anger is different

Human anger often springs from wounded pride, impatience, unmet expectations, or a desire to control circumstances. That is why Scripture repeatedly warns believers to be careful with anger. James teaches us to be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry because human anger does not produce the righteousness God desires (James 1:19-20).

One of the enemy’s favorite strategies is to use unresolved anger to create division, bitterness, and resentment. Paul warns believers not to let anger linger because it can give the devil an opportunity to gain a foothold in our lives (Ephesians 4:26-27). The longer anger remains unchecked, the easier it becomes for bitterness to take root.

God calls us to respond differently

Through the Holy Spirit, we can exercise self-control, extend grace, and choose forgiveness even when we have been wronged. Wisdom teaches us to overlook minor offenses and respond with patience rather than retaliation (Proverbs 19:11; Proverbs 12:16).

Therefore

When anger rises within you, pause before reacting. Take your feelings to God in prayer and ask Him for wisdom, self-control, and understanding. Refuse to allow anger to control your words or actions. Instead, allow the Holy Spirit to help you respond in a way that honors Christ. True strength is not found in overpowering others but in mastering your own spirit (Proverbs 16:32).

“Whoever is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit than he who takes a city.”  (Prov. 16:22 ESV)

Quote

“Do not say, ‘I cannot help having a bad temper.’ Friend, you must help it. Pray to God to help you overcome it at once, for either you must kill it, or it will kill you. You cannot carry a bad temper into heaven.” — Charles Spurgeon

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Mike French