Friends build each other up in love

“Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing.” (2 Thess 5:11 ESV)

The gift of encouragement 

There is the gift of encouragement or exhortation found in Paul’s list of gifts in Romans 12:7–8. The word translated “encouragement” or “exhortation” is the Greek word paraklésis, related to the word paraclete. Paraklésis basically means “a call to one’s side.”

Even though there is the specific gift of exhortation (encouragement) that some have been given by the Holy Spirit, as members of God’s family we are all expected to encourage and build each other up in Love. To relate to others with understanding, sympathy and positive guidance.

Friends stir each other up to love and do good works

“And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near.” (Heb. 10:24-25 ESV)

Friends use their gifts to serve one another 

“As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God's varied grace.” (1 Peter 4:10 ESV)